Fathers Blast Utah's Strict Adoption Laws
Suit Filed on Behalf of Men Who Fought to Keep Their Biological Babies From Being Adopted
A federal lawsuit is taking aim at Utah's
adoption laws, claiming they don't adequately protect the rights of
unmarried biological fathers in the name of getting newborns into
stable, two-parent families.
Utah's laws
are among the most "adoption-friendly" in the nation, say legal
experts, and largely reflect the state's desire to discourage both
abortions and a proliferation of single-parent families.
An
unwed mother living in Utah generally can relinquish her rights to a
baby to an adoption agency 24 hours after she gives birth, sooner than
is allowed in most other states. Utah also bars her from undoing her
decision if she changes her mind. Fathers, meanwhile, have limited
grounds to challenge the adoptive parents' custody of their child. It
typically isn't enough to argue that the mother failed to disclose her
plans to seek an adoption or outright misled the father.
The
lawsuit was filed last month in Salt Lake City federal court on behalf
of 12 men who fought to keep their babies from being placed into
adoption by their mothers. Three succeeded; nine didn't. It names the
state attorney general's office and two former state attorneys general
as defendants. A spokeswoman for the attorney general's office declined
to comment.
It is the latest challenge
to Utah's adoption laws, which place hundreds of children a year into
two-parent homes. Last March, the Utah Supreme Court heard arguments in a
case challenging the constitutionality of the laws. The court, which
has yet to rule, will soon consider two other suits making similar
claims.
"Compared to most others',
Utah's laws are draconian," said
Bruce Boyer,
director of the Civitas ChildLaw Clinic at the Loyola University
Chicago School of Law. "The state does not make it easy for fathers to
protect their rights."
An unwed father
living in Utah who seeks to block an adoption in the state must first
file a paternity action in court and submit a filing that includes a
parenting plan for after the child's birth and proof that he has paid—or
attempted to pay—for much of the mother's prenatal care. The father
must then let the state's Office of Vital Records know about the suit.
All of this requires hiring a lawyer, and can cost thousands of dollars.
It also has to happen quickly.
If a
father hasn't completed these requirements by the time the mother
relinquishes the baby to an adoption agency, he is typically out of
luck, even if he didn't know the mother was planning an adoption,
according to several Utah family lawyers.
Defenders
of the laws say they reflect a valid and justifiable legislative
determination. "It's a religious state in which the traditional
two-parent family structure is still very highly cherished," said
Lorie Fowlke,
a Republican former member of the state's House of
Representatives and now a family lawyer in Provo.
Ms.
Fowlke said that while Utah's laws may be less forgiving for fathers
than those elsewhere, they still afford rights to those who show a
commitment to parenting. "We say, 'OK, dad, if you've been involved,
buying diapers and prenatal vitamins and you file your paperwork on
time, then yes, you can have the rights,' " she said. "Otherwise, we
think mothers should be empowered to decide this on their own."
Utah
courts have dealt with a number of cases on this issue. In 2010,
Jake Strickland,
then a 23-year-old Salt Lake City-area resident, began a
relationship with a married woman who became pregnant with his child.
The couple stayed in communication and had discussed co-parenting,
according to court papers filed by Mr. Strickland's attorney in a suit
challenging the child's adoption. Based on her assurances, he didn't
take the necessary legal steps to protect his rights before the child's
birth.
Toward the end of her pregnancy,
the mother told Mr. Strickland that a caesarean section had been
scheduled for Jan. 12, 2011, according to Mr. Strickland's court papers.
But on Jan. 5, 2011, the mother told Mr. Strickland that she had
delivered the baby a week earlier and already had put the boy up for
adoption.
Mr. Strickland, also one of
the plaintiffs in the new suit, has been unsuccessful in trying to
invalidate the adoption in the lower courts and his case is pending with
the Utah Supreme Court. "I wouldn't wish this on anyone," he said.
Larry
Jenkins, the lawyer for the adoptive parents in Mr. Strickland's
lawsuit to invalidate the adoption, didn't respond to requests for
comment. In court papers, Mr. Jenkins said Mr. Strickland ignored advice
to take certain steps to protect his rights. "By statute, Strickland
had the responsibility to protect his own rights. He must bear the
burden of his failure."
A lawyer who
represented the biological mother shortly after the adoption declined to
comment. But in court papers filed in 2011, the lawyer argued that Mr.
Strickland "was fully aware of the pregnancy and discussed with [the
mother] her desire to place the child for adoption," and that Mr.
Strickland acknowledged that he knew of his legal obligations but failed
to follow through.
As recently as the
1970s, states afforded fathers relatively few rights in regard to
children conceived out of wedlock. Over time, legislatures softened
their positions and allowed unwed fathers more say over their children.
Utah didn't follow the trend, and in recent years has made the laws even less forgiving for fathers, say legal experts.
Wes Hutchins,
the lawyer representing the 12 men, said Utah's courts have been
slow to address the problems, part of the reason he turned to the
federal courts to declare key sections of the state's adoption laws
unconstitutional. "Utah has focused so intensely on 'finality and
stability' with its adoption laws that it's lost sight of what's in the
best interest of the children in many of these cases," he said.
Todd Weiler,
a Republican state senator from Woods Cross who largely supports
Utah's adoption laws, said, "As a policy matter, the state has taken the
position that we want adoptions to happen easily and quickly—and the
vast majority of adoptions of Utah do." Mr. Weiler said that of all the
adoptions processed in the state every year, "only a minuscule number
have problems," and that the state's courts do a good job of clamping
down on abuses.
A number of lawsuits in
recent years have involved mothers who travel to Utah to take advantage
of Utah's adoption-friendly laws. Under Utah law, an out-of-state
mother can put a child up for adoption in Utah without explicitly
telling a father she's doing so.
"The
law is just riddled with traps for fathers," said
Scott Wiser,
a family lawyer in Salt Lake City who has represented fathers in
paternity and other actions. "But for out-of-state fathers, Utah can be
brutal."
By: Ashby Jones Source: Wall Street Journal




When we were researching adoption agencies we found one that actually flies ALL their birthmoms to Utah to give birth because it's more adoption-friendly. Because of this, the birthmoms don't qualify for Medicare so the adoptive parents pay the hospital bill for the birth. I was so shocked that an agency thinks it's okay to fly birthmoms to a strange state, away from the support of family and friends, just because they think the birthmom will have the upper hand in placing their child for adoption. They even told me over the phone that in Utah birthdads aren't involved in the process and the birthmoms aren't required to even name a father. Needless to say, we didn't go with that agency
ReplyDeleteWow, that's sad to me. Very unethical, both to pressure an expectant mom by removing her from her normal environment and to disregard every bio father's rights from the get go.... and like you said, to then leave adoptive parents with a big, unnecessary bill.
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